We must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish our usefulness to others. But we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish our usefulness to others. The big book tells us, but we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflectionbb pg 86 for years in my sobriety i suffered from severe, at times, crippling depression. To watch people recover, to see them help others, to watch loneliness vanish. Home read the big book and twelve steps and twelve traditions alcoholics anonymous alcoholics anonymous this is the fourth edition of the big book, the basic text for alcoholics anonymous.
But we must be careful not to drift into morbid reflection, for that would diminish our. Home read the big book and twelve steps and twelve traditions alcoholics anonymous. In my early years of sobriety i was full of pride, thinking that a. Pages 86, 87 and 88 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous. Sorting and rendering passages in the proprietary format of the 164 and more concordance does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either alcoholics. I like the reflection caused by the northern lights. On page 86 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous it says, but we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish. Big book the bible tools tools overview worksheets custom worksheets. The big book gives specific detailed suggestions on working step 11 at night, in the. But we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that. You can search the alcoholics anonymous big book for phrases, key words, etc.
His book, like the film adaptation, spans the years leading up to the 2008 crash. Morbid in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and 12. God, please set aside everything that we think we know about ourselves. Excerpts reprinted from the big book, alcoholics anonymous and the twelve. What did this situation help where am i in this present. This song was so powerful, i asked his permission to put it on my web site and he agreed. Selfreflection is the ability to pay attention to your own thoughts, emotions, decisions, and behaviors. And when youre in that quiet space, make a mental note to enjoy the peace in your mind. The following is a list of the 40 musts from the big book. Why do we listen to songs that remind us of lost friends and lovers. My spiritual toolkit now includes a nightly inventory tool.
Prayers in 12 step recovery program of alcoholics anonymous. The reason is that morbid reflection isnt good for us. This is one of the steps in which the big book has very specific instructions. Lewis writes about the financial crisis of 2008, a crisis triggered by the buildup of the housing market and the credit bubble. Reflection in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and. The 164 and more book, ebook, and web site are all concordances which display passages from the big book alcoholics anonymous, the twelve steps and twelve traditions, and the a. Hear recovered addict and big book mucker, cameron f. It works, if we have the proper attitude and work at it. Guide me through this day and show me my next step.
Morbid occurs one time in bb definition in merriamwebster online. Today, i read the following out of the big book with a fellow addict. But we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection. So that by taking our minds off a morbid subject or worry, and placing it onto a healthier subject is a good thing to do. While the program is considered a suggested method for dealing with the disease of alcoholism, there are places within the big book where the authors used the word must. I would like to say a big thank you to clifton for the gift of a digital copy of this. Squinting and judgmental eyes pear down at us as we squirm and struggle to appear ok when we are really shaking inside, dripping cold sweat, and cant keep our legs from. The story follows our main character, shane and his two friends, paige and jimmer. Prayers from the big book alcoholics anonymous 3rd step prayerpage 63. Remove worry, remorse or morbid reflections that i may be of usefulness to others.
This is the fourth edition of the big book, the basic text for alcoholics anonymous. I forgot how many times ive read this passage and how much i love the big book in general. From that time on, i had to face the everpresent knowledge that my. However, there are many kinds of reflection some more helpful than others. I had thrown out my big book after my own experience in rehab when i tried to convince myself that i didnt. Origins of moral inventory aa the original way group. But we are careful not to drift into worry, remorse, or morbid reflection, for that would diminish our usefulness to others. God direct my thinking today so that it be divorced of self pity, dishonesty, selfwill, selfseeking and fear. Be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish your usefulness to others. Each page contains a reflection on a quotation from a. Under tools, simply select the nightly inventory tab to begin.
It certainly was the basic ingredient for my sobriety and even today, with over twelve years in the program, i am very involved in meetings, sponsorship and service. The myth of addiction as a disease big book sponsorship. Please grant me the willingness to see what you would have me see, in the light you would have me see it. Carrying for others and being kind to our fellows is not only the right thing to do, it is the gdly thing to do. The 164 and more book, ebook, and web site are all concordances which display passages from the big book. Theres also a book called 5 minute meditations from amazon. The big book tells us, but we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection bb pg 86 for years in my sobriety i suffered from severe, at times, crippling depression. I received an email from him regarding my web site and a beautiful song he had written called, i here god in you. Aa prayers, big book prayers and inspirational recovery 12. Working the steps step eleven quarter 3 the recovery group. It is based on the nonfiction book of michael lewis. While its good to be selfreflective about what happened in the past, its better to be able to use selfreflection in realtime to improve your decisions and behavior.
There came a time in my program of recovery when the third stanza of the serenity prayer the wisdom to know the difference became indelibly imprinted in my mind. Its a coming of age tale meets historical fiction meets paranormal. And other lessons from the crematory by caitlin doughty, the lovely bones by alice sebold, house of lea. God, please forgive me and tell me what corrective measures should be taken. Aas evening meditation pages 86,87 and 88 explained step 11. Notwithstanding the great necessity for discussing ourselves. Step 11 prayers and meditations evening prayer and meditation big book, page 86. A deeper look at the rebbes philosophy of reaching out to our fellow as part of our spiritual program. Reflection in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and 12.
From page 87 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous. Sharing feelings is not morbid reflection nor is venting, gossip. Sorting and rendering passages in the proprietary format of the 164 and more concordance does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either alcoholics anonymous. It is a fascinating book about celebrities, their tombstones and final stories. I hope you try it with all of your heart, doing it by the book. Although there have been various books of the same genre, morbid curiosity approaches this topic in a whole new way. The first paragraph on page 86 gives direct instructions about what to do each evening before bed. We attempt to carry the message in the way that was passed on by the founders and pioneers of alcoholics anonymous. Alcoholics anonymous step 11 when we retire at night. Yet, we believe we can make some definite and valuable suggestions.
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